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What does it mean when you hook up with your friend


Our friendship still stands. One night we were watching a movie at my place with Chinese takeout, extremely casual, and for some reason I just wanted to see what it was like to kiss him, maybe to assure myself that I had no feelings for him and just thought he was hot. I was right, no feelings, and the kiss definitely helped me find out. I was cool with it and so was she, it was just a little weird moment that happened, no big deal.

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I thought there was underlying chemistry there, obviously because we got along so well as friends, and when we tested it out, I think I got more attached than I had planned. We hooked up multiple times, and I guess I just wanted a little more respect than to be just a hookup.

We both blamed it on being drunk, so it was sort of overlooked and forgotten. Basically it was like it never even happened. Finally I put the idea out there that we should just try hooking up. Damn I was wrong. The next few times seeing each other were extremely weird. You could tell we changed how we were around each other.

Luckily we talked about it and got over it, and now laugh about it. We are just meant to be close friends.

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I think maybe I felt bad for him, and wanted him to feel better. I think he just sees it as a moment of weakness. Hooking up with her made me realize we are not a couple, which I guess is a good thing. Ever since we did it though something has been different between us.

It was weird, but at least we got it out of our system. Writer based in the Philadelphia area. Person who really loves her dog and watching cooking shows. Check out my writing on Thought Catalog and follow me on Facebook!

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