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Why do i always get rejected by girls

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Every woman reading this should reflect right now on the dating patterns not only of themselves, but of their group of friends as well.

Why You Need to Go...

Some of my female friends have virtually never been single. The moment they are, a new great guy scoops them up. Other female friends of mine are single by choice.

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If this sounds like you, keep reading, because the solution to end this pattern of rejection might be simpler than you think. Nobody does that anymore. Perhaps this is proof of a rejection attachment. Women with a rejection attachment probably believe that they are undesirable, so they collect evidence that supports that belief.

There are two main reasons...

The law of attraction rightfully suggests that any limiting beliefs towards dating or love are stopping you from attracting a mate.

Anytime you catch yourself thinking these negative beliefs, make sure to challenge them, because negativity is a bad habit that needs to be broken. Men are not attracted to women with low self-esteem and no self-confidence. Nobody enjoys either extreme. However, he wants to be needed a little bit. Ask around, and ask him. Seek men who are open to a relationship, healthy and happy. Erica is a writer, blogger and dating expert from Vancouver, BC.

She runs The Babe Reporta free advice column for millennials. You look back and you just feel stupid. You reread every text.

But, you do have to...

You relive every memory. And it all starts making sense — he never wanted love.

He only wanted attention. He only wanted validation. I love the writing and the photos. A new Thought Catalog series exploring our connection to each other, our food, and where it comes from.

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